The Role of Synchronicity in Relationships


I read your story of coming to your husband through synchronicity. I am curious how that might align with a woman having a gut feeling that she is meant to be with a certain man, and who feels that the universe is providing signs which affirm that. Can such instinct and “signs” be true? Are they indications that things are heading a certain way, or is this simply coincidence and does free will in decision making/choices trump what “feels” right? Is there a way to harness one’s consciousness towards a desired outcome?



Hi Marie.  It sounds like you are facing issues that all of us have faced at some point in our lives —  how to find love, how to know when fate is directing you toward a certain love, or whether it’s all “in your imagination”.

Marie, you do not describe the nature of the “signs” directing you toward this man.  Certainly, your “gut feelings” could simply be wish-fulfillment, though  sometimes such feelings can really be coming from  your Higher Self. However, true synchronicities, occurring in the outer world, are signs that you are “on the right track.”

My first piece of advice to you is this:  if your higher or inner Self is directing you to someone with synchronicities, then you must have TRUST that, in the end, things will work out as they should, especially if you follow the  heart of your inner Self (what I call “Choose Joy”) when opportunities come your way. It may take time, but as I always tell my kids — Trust in Great Spirit.  If the signals being given to you are genuine and not merely wishful thinking, then have faith.

As far as using consciousness to help you achieve a desired outcome, I do recommend that you read my book, Active Consciousness. First, by learning how to meditate and  how to contact your higher or inner Self, you may be able to distinguish between the desires of your ego versus genuine information coming from the Self.

Second, it is important to recognize that you probably cannot force a particular person to be in a relationship with you through the use of manifestation techniques like Active Consciousness.  What you can try to do is manifest a fulfilling loving relationship with a man. Choose as “Pure Goal” the type of relationship you want to be in. Then work cooperatively with your Self to manifest that relationship. It may or may not be with the particular man you have in mind, however. And as you work on this goal, stay alert for true synchronicities — they are  signs that you are on the right track.

I hope this is helpful!


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